So I was sitting down, randomly thinking as I sometimes do, and I happened to be thinking about relationships and people. And in my head I asked myself, “its amazing how some people can put someone that their not married to or not even sure they love above their friends, family, and even God almighty himself!” My fellow people…. please STOP! Just because you finally found yourself a girlfriend or boyfriend doesn’t mean you have to cut everyone off socially and stop speaking/responding to people. Be the same person you were before, and of course spend time with your new boo, but don’t cut off important people in your life. Find the time and perfect balance to spend time with both. You don’t want to lose people that are close to you and then find out the new person in your life doesn’t even really like you as much as you thought or things just fall apart between you two and you lose out twice! Yet disaster’s like these happen more than enough. People lose themselves because their so greatly attached to someone (lust) and become blind men or women to everything else. So my advice…. just don’t be that person who makes their boyfriend/girlfriend their “god”. Learn to love and not lust and if you don’t know the difference do some research. To make it simple though lust is with the eyes and body but love is from the heart.
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