So I was sitting down, randomly thinking as I sometimes do, and I happened to be thinking about relationships and people. And in my head I asked myself, “its amazing how some people can put someone that their not married to or not even sure they love above their friends, family, and even God almighty himself!” My fellow people…. please STOP! Just because you finally found yourself a girlfriend or boyfriend doesn’t mean you have to cut everyone off socially and stop speaking/responding to people. Be the same person you were before, and of course spend time with your new boo, but don’t cut off important people in your life. Find the time and perfect balance to spend time with both. You don’t want to lose people that are close to you and then find out the new person in your life doesn’t even really like you as much as you thought or things just fall apart between you two and you lose out twice! Yet disaster’s like these happen more than enough. People lose themselves because their so greatly attached to someone (lust) and become blind men or women to everything else. So my advice…. just don’t be that person who makes their boyfriend/girlfriend their “god”. Learn to love and not lust and if you don’t know the difference do some research. To make it simple though lust is with the eyes and body but love is from the heart.

Love is of course intangible, but it is also (or at least should be) everlasting and enduring through any and all circumstances. So, why do some people have marital/relationship problems? Does one person love wither away? Were they truly in love to begin with? What is their relationship based on? Material and things of self-interest? A lot of times the latter may be the cause, but not for everyone. Some people simply have irreconcilable differences, but then again why is this? Usually because a person doesn’t want to love past simple differences and circumstances. If we let small problems persist or let things other than (“The Man Upstairs” lol) get in the way of our relationships, there is a good chance it won’t last. Simply your love for something else, or your obstinately bitter behavior nulls the relationship. So how can you make a relationship last? Well I simply believe people should humble themselves and give unconditional love to your signifcant other (and God of course lol) fighting through any and all circumstances. The only time a man or woman should leave is if one has committed adultery, but that shouldn’t even happen to begin with, but enough of my rant, what do you think love is and your take on relationships? Leave brief comments please.